faithfulness...

you know, now a days its hard to find anyone thats truely faithful.
i cant tell you how many married men try and talk to me. ok, thats so unwanted. one of my friends even tried to make moves, ive lost total respect for him. does he really think im like that, i know hes married, i met his wife. he is one i didnt think was like that... hes even got kids. it makes me wonder if ill ever be secure enough in the relationship department.

i know i have been disrespected by a few guys. constantly getting told lies and always having that gut feeling. in the end i was right. it always makes me wondeer...why?? what did i do to deserve this. what went wrong. no, every guy is not like this... i do see quite a bit of true loving faithful relationships, however, there is way too many unfaithful ones.
expecially in the army. you always hear about soldiers cheating on their spouses. ones that are and arent deployed. it always makes me feel bad.

it always makes me wonder what people are thinking. and it makes it scary to get into a relationship. cuz people i thought were totally faithful and honest turned out to be the complete opposite. its scary. its weird. its uncalled for.

if your spouse, fiance or bf/gf isnt doin it for you, say something. because you may be able to fix it. lots of times its cuz theyre always busy or away or their love life is falling apart. but talk about it. you can save so many families and relationships by this. you dont need to disrespect your partner. so why dont people save the hurt, the tears, the wandering and just be open. sit down and be honest. talk.

if we did this many people would be happier. many issues would be resolved. the world would be a better place and i think God would be proud.